* Obama will not apologise but honour WW2 dead

* President will not reopen debate on dropping of bombs

* Bombing survivors have mixed feelings about visit



By Minami Funakoshi

HIROSHIMA, Japan, May 27 (Reuters) - Barack Obama on Friday becomes the first sitting U.S. president to visit Hiroshima, site of the world's first atomic bombing, a gesture Washington and Tokyo hope will showcase their alliance and breathe life into stalled efforts to abolish nuclear arms.

Even before it occurs, though, the visit has stirred debate, with critics accusing both sides of having selective memories and pointing to paradoxes in policies relying on nuclear deterrence while calling for an end to atomic arms. urn:newsml:reuters.com:*:nL3N18G1KZ

The two governments hope Obama's tour of Hiroshima, where an atomic bomb killed thousands instantly on Aug. 6, 1945, and some 140,000 by the year's end, will highlight a new level of reconciliation and tighter ties between the former enemies.

Aides say Obama's main objective in Hiroshima, where he will lay a wreath at a peace memorial, is to showcase his nuclear disarmament agenda for which he won the Nobel Peace Prize in 2009.

Obama has said he will honour all who died in World War Two but will not apologise for the bombing. The city of Nagasaki was hit by a second nuclear bomb on Aug. 9, 1945, and Japan surrendered six days later.

A majority of Americans see the bombings as having been necessary to end the war and save lives, although some historians question that view. Most Japanese believe they were unjustified.

"I'm coming, first and foremost, to remember and honour the tens of millions of lives lost during the Second World War. Hiroshima reminds us that war, no matter the cause or countries involved, results in tremendous suffering and loss, especially for innocent civilians," Obama said in written responses to questions published in the Asahi newspaper on Friday.

The White House debated whether the time was right for Obama to break a decades-old taboo on presidential visits to Hiroshima, especially in an election year.

But Obama's aides defused most negative reaction from military veterans' groups by insisting he would not second-guess the decision to drop the bombs.

"I will not revisit the decision to use atomic weapons in Hiroshima and Nagasaki, but I will point out that Prime Minister (Shinzo) Abe and I coming to Hiroshima together shows the world the possibility of reconciliation - that even former adversaries can become the strongest of allies," Obama told the Asahi.



"GOOD ALLIES"

World War Two flying ace Dean "Diz" Laird, 95, who shot down Japanese fighters and dropped bombs on Tokyo, said he was pleased that Obama was making the visit.

"It's bad that so many people got killed in Hiroshima, but it was a necessity to end the war sooner," said Laird, the only known U.S. Navy pilot to shoot down both German and Japanese planes during the war.

"I believe in at least showing the Japanese that we care because they are now our good allies."

Critics argue that by not apologising, Obama will allow Japan to stick to the narrative that paints it as a victim.

Abe's government has affirmed past official apologies over the war but said future generations should not be burdened by the sins of their forebears.

China and South Korea, which suffered from Japan's wartime aggression, often complain Tokyo has not atoned sufficiently.

"Given Hiroshima's sensitive identity, the Japanese government is trying to use the historic visit to highlight Japan's image of a 'war victim', while downplaying its role as an aggressor in World War Two," China's state news agency Xinhua said. "... Obama's Hiroshima visit should not be used as an occasion to whitewash Japan's atrocities in World War Two."

Atomic bomb survivors have said an apology from Obama would be welcome but for many, the priority is ridding the world of nuclear arms, a goal that seems as elusive as ever.

Not all agree. "I want Obama to say 'I'm sorry.' If he does, maybe my suffering will ease," said Eiji Hattori, 73, a toddler at the time of the bombing who now has three types of cancer.

"If Obama apologised, I could die and meet my parents in heaven in peace."

(Additional reporting by Matt Spetalnick; Writing by Linda Sieg; Editing by Paul Tait and Nick Macfie) ((linda.sieg@thomsonreuters.com; 81-3-6441-1881; Reuters Messaging: linda.sieg.thomsonreuters.com@reuters.net))